Empower Scholarships

Reading about the inspiring stories of various people who apply for a scholarship is one of the pleasures we received in hosting one. We received thousands of applications from all over the different states, and knowing about their interests, ambitions, and backgrounds gave us nothing but delight and joy. We read about their life’s journey and how their experiences encouraged them to pursue careers in different fields of education. We are excited to see what the future holds for all of our applicants since they all want to make a huge difference in the world.

We're pleased to announce that after months of reading, rereading, and going through hundreds of applicants, we've chosen Kayla McEwen as the recipient of the Organic Life Start Empower Scholarship!

Kayla is currently taking up Psychology in California State University Bakersfield, with hopes of becoming a school psychologist someday. She was raised by a hardworking and selfless single mom who made sure to take care of her despite the absence of her father. This inspired her and prepared her now that she is a single mom of four wonderful kids. Being a single mom was never easy, especially if you have dreams to pursue. But she’s not the type who gives up easily.

As challenging as it may seem to balance being a full-time student and being the sole full-time parent to four young children, Kayla proved to be successful in both. She takes most of the classes she needs online via zoom, or fully online so that she can be home as 2 of her children are not going to school yet. She waits until she puts the kids to bed at 8:30-9:00 PM to start on her schoolwork, she will then do all assignments, quizzes, tests due by midnight first then begin studying until 3-4 AM. All this sacrifice because she wants to give her kids the time they need.

Kayla’s compelling and moving story, which discusses the hardships of a single mom having to take all the responsibility alone is what sets her apart. There was a time that she didn’t know what to do, she even felt like a huge failure as a mother. But the brave Kayla didn’t stop there, she immediately went back to working full time. For she knew that if she wanted to support her kids and provide them with stability, she needed to go back to school. Though, a part of her was not confident enough to believe that she was smart enough or capable of doing anything - she fought that part of herself so that the real Kayla would prevail; A loving, brave, passionate and dedicated mother and student. With that said, she was able to finish AA in psychology in one year rather than two while maintaining Dean's List. This is one of the achievements that makes her proud. It was the first time she believed that she could actually finish and graduate with BA. I know that many would definitely agree that it will be very challenging to achieve this with or without kids.

When asked if she would have to “regift” this scholarship, who would she give it to? She answered that “she would want it to be given to another parent who is trying to better themselves and their babies' lives because from experience when you are a single parent and receive help, it just means so much to you.” We’re glad to give it to someone as deserving as her.

When we launched this scholarship program, we always had the value of SHARING in mind:

• We wanted to share positivity when you recognize the people who inspire you to reach your dreams.
• We wanted to share empowerment by being your voice and sharing your story of inspiration.
• We wanted to share and give back to the community. We see you working hard for your future and we know that you will share the same inspiration and empowerment to the next generation.

Choosing a winner is no easy feat. All the stories we received are wonderful and uplifting – but we had to make a choice. After several weeks of deliberation, it is with joy that we announce Organic Life Start’s Spring Semester scholarship awardee: Jessica Lee.

Jessica is taking up Neuroscience and Psychology in the University of Pittsburgh. She has devoted her life to caring for her family. She is a determined single mother who is doing her best for her strong, brave, and smart 8-year-old daughter.

Her schedule is packed every day – but it’s always centered on putting her daughter’s needs first. She adjusts her schedule so that she can drop off her daughter to school and pick her up on time. She and her third-grader work on their homework together and she makes sure that they get to enjoy dinner together. Saturdays! Saturdays are extra special for the mother-daughter duo: Jessica’s daughter gets to take ice skating classes and Jessica gets peace in watching her do something she has always wanted, but was not able to do before.

Here are some takeaways from Jessica that she wants to impart to everyone reading this:

• Getting on the other side of a relationship is not something to be ashamed of. Learn to care for yourself, not just for others.
• Strive to be the best person. In Jessica’s case, she strives to be the best person for her daughter – the best person in her world.
• Set healthy boundaries in all of your relationships.
• You deserve better. You are not alone in your battles. Do not let anyone tell you that you are not good enough, especially for something you dream for.

We also wanted to share Jessica’s special message her daughter:

• Set healthy boundaries.
• It’s okay to take care of your mental health first.
• And Jessica’s favorite quote: “Mental health is not your fault, but it is your responsibility. And that starts with healthy boundaries.”

Jessica serves as an inspiration. She is a mother. She is a friend. She is a hard worker. She is you and me – navigating this world for our loved ones and trying to share love, every step of the way.

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Thank you everyone for sharing your stories with us. You make the world better by recognizing and honoring empowering individuals in your lives. We are humbled to have received so many sponsorship applications over the past months. We wish you all the best in all your endeavors!

The story that our team chose for the Fall Semester Scholarship is so close to our hearts. As fellow parents, we all share a common mission of being the best version of ourselves for our children. Aside from providing their needs, we aim to serve as an inspiration – and show our kids that they can also make their dreams come true despite circumstances beyond our control.

Dannon, one of the strongest women we got the opportunity to know, goes to WGU and is studying to become a Registered Nurse.

On Motherhood: Dannon's motherhood journey was not as smooth sailing - she went through an unplanned pregnancy without a partner, had to move in with her parents, and had postpartum depression. She had to deal with exhaustion, sleep deprivation, and adjustment to caring for someone who fully relies on her – all while her body and mind are healing.

At 3 months, her baby had bronchitis. When Dannon heard her baby wheezing - her heart broke to several pieces. But her baby was just happy that he was with his mom - he was smiling and giggling while wheezing and struggling to breathe. Dannon thought that she had never witnessed someone in so much pain but could just smile and laugh it off. Her infant was struggling for basic life and yet he never cried; rather, he had the strength to smile at his mother and which offered her so much comfort.

As adults, we learn to hide a lot of emotions to not disturb others but her son wasn’t hiding anything. At that moment, she realized that her child is so strong and truly kind. He has no preconceived notions about how to “act” in society and is just himself. She realized that she wanted to become just like her son; happy regardless of the pain. He then gave Dannon a new goal – and that is to protect his smile and happiness.

On Nursing: 2020 changed everyone’s lives. Dannon saw how hard everyone in the medical community worked to make the world better. This led her to a mission – be part of the solution.

She had first hand experience with how nurses make situations better. When her son was sick, the nurses that helped him at Children's Medical Center provided her small family with comfort. They would play with her son and make him giggle even when he did not feel good. They constantly checked on Dannon and regularly updated her on everything that was going on. They cared for her son and after a week it was time for them to leave. The nurses were so happy to see him off because he was laughing and walking around. Dannon has never felt such reassurance that her son would be okay and to this day, she is grateful for those nurses and doctors that helped him.

Dannon wanted to go into the medical field so badly after that, but she knew that it was a difficult feat for a single parent. She had to get a couple of things in order before making a career change.

• The first thing was to find an online school that could allow her to finish as much school remotely as possible.
• The second was to make sure her son was old enough to get into Public School. Now that he is in Kindergarten, Dannon will be able to spend more time focusing on work and school so that when he comes home, she can have time to focus on him. I have found a school, WGU, that allows me to work remotely as much as possible.

Her strong desire to be a part of the medical community has led her to pursue her nursing degree while taking care of her family.

Once she finishes nursing school, Dannon’s goal is to work for a Children’s Hospital.

• She wants to help kids heal from their diseases.
• She wants to repay the kindness and reassurance that she has received in a trying time. She recognizes that without those nurses who offered her support, she would have been lost.
• She also wants to give it to other parents who are in the same position as she was.

Dannon also aims to be a part of an OBGYN. She wants to assist with this area because creating human life is no easy task.

• She would like to be there for other women just as they were there for her.
• Sometimes life is scary and bringing a baby into the mix can be frightening but it doesn’t have to be that way. Her role will be for the mothers to feel there is one less thing to worry about with her help.

On Life Lessons for Our Readers

Difficult is Not Impossible. Dannon thought that it was impossible to get into nursing school as a single parent. After researching, she found out there are so many ways to receive assistance when trying to go back to school as a single parent. She used to worry that she would not be able to find time to work and go to school at the same time. However, WGU has helped her realize that she can take as many online classes as necessary and better prepare herself for clinical application.

You cannot plan everything to a T - and expect that everything will go according to plan. Natural birth + No epidurals. Beastfeed. These were the goals she had for herself. And these are the goals that so many parents have.

While she was able to deliver her son naturally, she could not do the other half. She was barely producing breast milk and because there was so little of it - she didn’t realize that it was hurting her son.His jaundice was not going away. She could not fix it by eating and sleeping more (no parent gets to sleep more!) I could barely produce any breast milk and I kept thinking that I could fix things just needed to sleep or eat more. She switched to formulas and he got better.

Dannon realized that plans may seem important, but she also learned that if her son is healthy, the rest will fall into place. As parents, there are plenty of times where we feel that we know best or want to give our kids the most they can possibly have – but sometimes it’s these feelings that can get in the way of what is truly best for them. There is no perfect answer/solution. Each child is different, and they just want you and your love.

Here are Dannon’s messages for her son:

• Always remember that difficult is not impossible. If you truly have a dream or passion, go for it, and try your hardest.
• The best things in life are not always the easiest. Life can be messy and scary but knowing how to handle those situations is half the battle.
• You have more love and support than you possibly know and just know that we are all here for you. My biggest goal for you is that you get to follow your dreams/passions and see them through.
• I love you with all my heart and you will always be my greatest accomplishment.

Dannon’s story is yours and mine. She is vulnerable and strong. She is kind and determined. She is full of love despite hardships. She is an inspiration - and we are honored to share her story with all of you.

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Thank you to all participants who took the time to share their wonderful stories. With so many people lifting each other up, we are hopeful that the future generations will be beautiful, bright, and kind. We wish you all the best!